Avail NYC exists to be a safe haven for women and men facing an unexpected pregnancy or seeking support after an abortion. We are not a medical provider.
*Names changed for confidentiality.
Arianna was working hard and studying to receive her master’s degree when she found out she was pregnant.
In the moment she found out, she remembers being filled with both shame and pride.
"My family would have been so disappointed to know I was pregnant," Arianna explains. "I'm the one my aunts will call to have me talk with my younger cousins when they are off track."
If her family were to find out she was pregnant, she felt like they would no longer look up to her.
When she was eleven weeks pregnant, Arianna decided to have an abortion.
She found a Planned Parenthood near her. When she got there, the waiting room was packed. “It made me feel like, ‘This is normal, I'm dramatizing my feelings,'" she says.
Even though she'd arrived at 8 a.m., it was several hours before she was seen for her abortion appointment.
"Finally, I was placed into another room in a hospital gown with other women. I could feel the despair in the room. I started talking with the woman next to me who was fourteen weeks pregnant and crying. It was upsetting," she recalls.
"After the abortion, I just remember holding my stomach and feeling empty," she says.
After the abortion procedure, Arianna remembers going to a park and walking in circles for hours, crying. "I stood in front of the swing set and thought about what life would have looked like with a child. I felt like I'd rewritten my own future, but I didn't want to burden any family or friends by telling them about my abortion.”
A month passed, Arianna didn’t speak to anyone about her abortion except for her boyfriend, but she quickly realized needed an outlet to process. She found herself resenting her boyfriend for not voicing an opinion about the decision; she felt like she had nowhere to turn.
"I was so scared to tell my family due to fear, but now I was just filled with shame," she recalls.
After searching, Arianna found
Avail NYC and met with a client advocate. Through that relationship, Arianna has been able to start to process her feelings, looking toward facing her future and finding resilience.
Our compassionate client advocates at Avail NYC are here to listen to your concerns and fears without judgment. We understand there are often unresolved emotions that come along with an abortion experience and not every person has the same feelings about their abortion.
If you'd like to speak with women who are going through similar experiences, we invite you to explore our
Meet-Ups. These are safe and confidential spaces facilitated by our client advocates for you to share with and listen to others that have their own abortion stories. We can also meet with you (and your partner, if desired) one-on-one to help you process your emotions after your abortion. All our services are free.
Avail NYC exists to be a safe haven for women and men facing an unexpected pregnancy or seeking support after an abortion. We are not a medical provider.
*Names changed for confidentiality.
ABOUT AVAIL
Avail NYC provides free, compassionate support for women and men navigating unexpected pregnancies or seeking support after an abortion. Our trained Personal Advocates offer a safe, confidential space online or in-person to process emotions and explore options. Equipping clients with personalized coping strategies and resources, we empower them to move forward with confidence at their own pace. Avail NYC is not a medical provider. To learn more or meet with a personal advocate, visit Avail NYC.
Our office is conveniently located at 115 W 45th St, 4th floor, New York, NY 10036. To see directions and hours, please read more about our location.
For your online appointment, please check your email for the link to join the appointment via Zoom. This link was sent when you scheduled the appointment and is included in your appointment reminders. If you can’t find it, don’t hesitate to contact us, and we’ll resend the information quickly.
You can always cancel or reschedule your appointment if you need to. Simply select “Manage Appointments” via our online booking system or contact us directly to move your appointment to a time that better fits your schedule.
If you miss your appointment, there’s no need to worry. We understand that things can come up unexpectedly. Simply reschedule at your earliest convenience through our online system or by r eaching out to us.
Absolutely, you are welcome to bring someone with you for support during your appointment. We aim to make you as comfortable as possible, and having your partner or a supportive friend or family member by your side can be part of that. Just add a note when you make the appointment and we will have a male or female advocate there to support them.
Our personal advocates are highly trained, trauma-informed professionals who have been trained on counseling techniques, confidentiality, and sensitivity to diverse needs, and how to help others make a decision.
We're here to make sure you feel fully supported. We do encourage you to work with one advocate, but if you feel you need to make a change at any time, learn more about our team of qualified personal advocates or just reach out to us.
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