We're here to listen, every step of the way.

You're not alone. It's common to feel a mix of emotions after an abortion, even if you and your partner feel confident about the decision you made. 

Studies reveal that men often don’t start processing pregnancy loss until two years afterward. Why is this? It’s usually because they have been so focused on helping their partners that they don’t allow themselves to process their own emotions about abortion.

It's not always easy to talk about your abortion to friends and family members who might not understand the complexity of the decision you made. Sometimes you just need a confidential, non-judgmental place to process your thoughts. Our Personal Advocates are compassionate, unbiased, and have their own abortion experiences to draw from. 

When you're ready to talk, we're here to listen.

Whether your partner’s pregnancy was expected or unexpected, it’s normal to feel a mix of excitement and anxiety as you think about the future. It’s normal to wonder how things will change for you, your partner, and your relationship. It may also feel like you’re sitting on the sidelines while your partner is experiencing the pregnancy firsthand. Your role is so much more than sideline supportive. It’s active and crucial.

Avail supports women and men by offering a safe place to talk through your experiences and questions, especially when facing an unexpected pregnancy. If you have further questions or think your girlfriend might be pregnant, make a confidential appointment with a male Personal Advocate to get started. All services are free.

Whatever you're feeling, we're here to listen.

No matter where you are in your journey and what you ultimately choose to do, there's no right or wrong way to feel. Sometimes you just want to process. Avail exists to be a safe place where you can do just that. 

Our Personal Advocates listen to you and your partner, putting you both first. Our goal is to provide unbiased support, a listening ear, and resources to help you own your story. Find a time to talk and let us know if your partner will join us.